Wednesday, July 25, 2012

We Are Aurora, Colorado



Like many people this weekend, you were probably checking newsfeeds for more updates about the Century 16 Massacre.  You were horrified, sickened, heart-sick.  We were, too.   We live in Aurora.

When we woke up Friday morning, we saw the reports.  We took many calls, instant messages, emails from friends and family asking if we were okay… or making sure we weren’t at that movie premiere.  Of course we weren’t there, but 33 people from our church (Calvary Chapel Aurora) were… a few people from my job were there… So even if we weren’t there, we were NOT okay.  We were worried.  

As we sat at our kitchen table listening to our children play blissfully unaware, my husband and I were overcome with a myriad of emotions.  Our hearts ached for the victims, for their families, for the first responders.  We vacillated between anger and disbelief that this happened in our city, in a theater in which we had seen movies, too.  We repeatedly looked at our children, thanking God for them when we knew that at least one family had lost a 6-year-old.  Our neighbors and friends felt the same way.  We talked about how crazy it all was.  How awful.  

Our church pastoral staff was already mobilizing to help the victims.  They were at hospitals.  They were helping the people that had gathered at Gateway High School to learn the fate of their missing loved ones.  Our church was already preparing for funerals and readying the staff for grief counseling.  Our pastor broke into regular programming on 89.7 Grace FM to take calls from anyone affected so they would have an outlet and could get prayer if they wanted it. 

Our church was not the only one doing this.  All the area churches were.  Hospitals, charities, businesses.  Our community was moving.  It was trying to put a bandage on the gaping wound that was the Century 16 Theater.   
      
As the day unfolded we learned more and more.   Thankfully, all the people from our church escaped unscathed.  When I say unscathed, I mean it in the physical sense.  They are forever changed by the events in that theater, as we all are.  We learned that my co-workers were wounded, but were alive.  We learned that our friends in the medical field were exhausted but had carried on valiantly. 

We listened to the dispatch recording of the first responders.  They were on the scene within 90 seconds and had apprehended the suspect in under 5 minutes.  Police took him without a shot, by the way.  They shouted out locations, gave stats on victims, secured the area, transported victims when ambulances couldn’t get there fast enough.  They were the real heroes.   

That night, we tried to go about our lives as normally as possible.  We sought out the fellowship of some dear friends and broke bread with them.  We tried to laugh.  We tried to lift each other up.  We talked about how we could help with our church’s efforts and made plans to attend the vigil on Sunday.  We watched our children laughing and giggling, full of life, and we were so thankful for them.   

My husband and his friend went to the vigil on Sunday.  He said it was beautiful and reflective.  He also said that our wonderful Aurora PD put the crazy Westboro Baptist folks SO FAR out of the way that the vigil attendees didn’t even know they were there.  Our heroes yet again.  

The overwhelming mantra was “We Will Remember”.  And we will.  We will carry on.  We will come alongside the survivors and help them heal.  We will minister to the families of those that lost loved ones.  We are Aurora, Colorado.   


Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Fewer people see college as good financial investment

Fewer people see college as good financial investment

Really?  I think college is an awesome investment.

If you can afford it.

In this day and age, college tuition prices are rising at a seeming exponential rate.  For-profit institutions offer flexible class schedules at a premium... and then unscrupulous lenders swoop in offering unsubsidized money (AKA LOANS) to pay for said flexible schedules... and then students are in debt faster than they can blink an eye.  Tens of thousands of dollars later (and in some cases, this reaches into six figures) these students have a degree and then a HUGE loan payment.

But prices at the non-profits are also going up.  Books are ridiculous.  On-campus housing isn't as cost-efficient as it used to be.

And then you have the glut in the market.  Every summer recent college grads flood the market hoping to find a job.  In fact, I think many of them unrealistically expect to get six figure incomes as soon as they're handed their degrees.  They quickly realize that all those loans have to get paid somehow and so they take what they can get.  I don't know how to fix this.  It's just an observation.  

Still, most employers want to see that you have a degree in SOMETHING.  I think a lot of employers want education AND experience.  So what are we to do?  Whatever we can.  Get experience because that is less expensive but also get an education at the same time.  I guess.

I say all of this and I had a full scholarship for ALL FOUR YEARS of my undergrad education.  I busted my butt, though.  I had to keep my GPA above a 3.5.  I think there should be more scholarships from the private sector.  More corporations should offer internships so people can get valuable experience.  I also think there should be more work-study programs to help students work off what they owe.

Education.  This is a passion of mine and has been since I can remember.  Our society seems to value it to a certain extent because employers like to see a college degree on a resume.  Yet, we don't value it enough.  If we did, there would be more options for people to gain an education/trade/career.  Right?

*SIGH*

I have no idea how this should be fixed.  I'm just venting.